prayer for how?

Lord, i am on Your side...and You are on mine.
but in this battle, how should i fight?
in this Romance, how should i display my Love?
should i advance with all my strength?
or should i forsake my strength and seek only to rest on Your might and omniscience?
or is there something between?
where is the balance that must be met?
or should the balance be ignored because it defers my attention and focus from what true Life, and Living, and Truth, and Reality all have at their heart?